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Table of Contents

MESSAGE FROM THE RABBI

ACKNOWLEDGMENT

INTRODUCTION

PREFACE

When Death Is Imminent or Has Occurred

Whom to notify and what they need to know

SECTION I: ADVANCE PLANNING

A. Health Care Advance Planning

  • Health Care Proxy or Durable Power of Attorney for Health Care  
  • Medical Directive or Living Will and related documents  
  • Organ Donation

B. Legal Planning and Documents, other than Health Care

  • Durable Power of Attorney
  • Agent for the Disposition of Remains
  • Preparing a Folder of Needed Documents (“JUST IN CASE” file)

C. Cemeteries and Funeral Homes

  • Prearranging a Cemetery
  • Prearranging a Funeral Home

SECTION II: FROM DEATH THROUGH MOURNING

A. From Death through Burial

  • First Questions: Organ Donations and Autopsies
  • Funeral Homes and Cemeteries
  • Collecting and Preparing the Body for a Traditional Jewish Funeral
  • The Funeral Service and Burial

B. Mourning

  • Shiva
  • Shloshim
  • After Shloshim
  • Habonim’s Chesed Committee

APPENDIX: RESOURCES AND READING

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